What does "to love" even mean anymore?
Everybody wants to hear the classic line: "I love you". But do those words really convey a sense of love?
The "internetification" of love is something youngsters have to deal these with these days. I myself too. It's a constant stream of rules and wishes and perfect imagery of a relationship. Born out of a insecure mess.
These so called "standards" are easily picked up by users scrolling past. Because an algorithm thinks you need it. But even worse, the algorithm presents scary possibilities in their relationship.
"Is your partner not thinking constantly about you? Well clearly he doesn't love you or he's absolutely cheating". That's clearly overexaggerating, but there's a core of truth inside of it. The algorithm feeds the mind things it shouldn't consume.
Creating a bubble of insecurity and overthinking everything in the relationship.
I definitely don't blame anyone for being fed these thoughts. But it's something you should watch out for. It can be quite dangerous.
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